The holiday season is a time that carries a unique magic for my family and I, filled with twinkling lights, festive tunes, and the warmth of shared moments. This year, I had the wonderful opportunity to immerse myself in the holiday spirit alongside my mom with a visit to Christmas Town at Busch Gardens Williamsburg. As we wandered through the park, I couldn’t help but reflect on the significance of spending time with loved ones during this time of the year.

As an only child, I’ve often found myself navigating the holidays as the third adult between my parents. While my role may have shifted over the years, this recent experience with my mom offered a gentle reminder of the privilege and advantage that comes with having loving parents. Parenthood is a journey of trial and error, and my mom, like any parent, hasn’t always gotten it right. Yet, the time we spent together at Christmas Town allowed me to appreciate the beauty of our shared moments.

The beautiful lights and festive decorations served as a backdrop to our conversations, creating a tapestry of memories I will cherish. There’s a unique joy in rediscovering the holiday season through the eyes of someone you care about. My mom’s enthusiasm for Christmas, especially as we navigated the magical displays, was contagious, filling the air with a sense of wonder and delight. We got to enjoy the shows, eat good food, and sip on some hot chocolate.

As I relished in the festive atmosphere, I couldn’t ignore the bittersweet awareness that comes with this season. Many of my friends are at an age where they are grappling with the loss of their parents. This reality serves as a reminder to not take anything for granted and the moments spent with loved ones.

The trip to Christmas Town wasn’t just about the dazzling lights and cheerful decorations; it was a celebration of the bonds that enrich our lives. It’s a testament to the enduring love that transcends the ups and downs of parent and child relationships. Amid the holiday hustle, taking the time to appreciate and enjoy these moments with our loved ones becomes a gift in itself.

So, whether you’re planning a festive outing or simply sharing a quiet evening, remember the essence of the holidays lies in the connections we nurture and the memories we create. And for those who don’t have community, spending time in connection with self and engaging in self-care is also time worthy of cherishing.

With gratitude,

Can